#16 Go To Hawaii

May 21, 2011-June 6, 2011  (Condensed Version…Extended Version Below…)

While many of the items on my bucket list consist of traveling internationally, Hawaii was definitely on the top of my list of places to visit within the United States.  Zack and I chose Hawaii as a perfect honeymoon destination for the two of us—plenty of gorgeous beaches to relax on, but also plenty of adventures to be had.  Going to Hawaii was fantastic, because it has the feel of going to a different country with a whole new culture, but it has the comfort and safety of being in the United States.

My new in-laws were extremely generous in offering up their timeshare to us for our two week Honeymoon in Hawaii.  The available condos we found were both on the island of Kauai, and we couldn’t have visited a more romantic, beautiful, amazing place.

After a sleepless night in New York (too much excitement),a stop in LA and about 11 or so hours of travel, we finally touched down in the Garden Island.  We picked up our rental car that we would use for the two weeks, and decided on a Mustang convertible instead of the compact car we had signed up for.  It was only $80 bucks more for the two weeks and come on…it was our HONEYMOON!  We found out later that ALL the tourists in Kauai get a Mustang, so instead of blending in, we definitely stuck out, but I still think it was totally worth it!  The first thing I noticed at the airport was a rooster, hen, and a family of baby chicks.  We knew there were wild chickens on the island, but after spending two weeks on the island, we realized they are EVERYWHERE.  On the streets, on the beach, even in the woods!  Apparently, there was a hurricane in 1992 that swept through and ended up hitting a bunch of chicken coops and all the chickens were freed.  Hence, there are now wild chickens all over the island.

Our first week was spent in Princeville, on the North Shore, at a resort called Ka’eo Kai which was right on a golf course and beautiful.  Having a 5 hour time difference made it all the more possible for us to rise early with the roosters and enjoy the daytime.  We discovered really cool species of animals including my favorite, the Brazilian cardinal, and we saw a Bird of Paradise flower for the first time.  The North Shore was definitely my favorite part of the island—it’s a tropical rainforest with a road of twists and turns and one-lane bridges.  There are many yummy restaurants and fun shops, stunning views, plenty of beaches, cool caves , and great snorkeling.  We enjoyed Hanalei Bay, Haena Beach, Ke’e Beach (personal favorite), Queen Emma’s Bath, tunnels, shave ice, Kalua pig sandwiches.  We did a raft boat tour of the Napali Coast which was just amazing!  We rode around with our crazy captain, went inside cool caves, saw gorgeous views, and even went snorkeling.

The only downside to the North Shore is that is gets a LOT of rain.  (which is how I’m sure it keeps it’s green color!)  When we saw the weather forecast for that first week, I have to admit, we were a little depressed.  We quickly realized how fast the weather can change though, and how small the island of Kauai is.  We discovered that the South Shore of the island is usually sunny, and it was only about an hour or so drive to get there.  Down on the South shore, we discovered the beautiful beaches of Poipu, the Waimea Canyon where many hikes took place, we went zipcording and horseback riding on the beach for the first time, saw sea turtles & some really awesome fish. 

The second week, we stayed in Kapaa on the East Coast of the island.  Kapaa is a little town with many shops and restaurants that causes most of the traffic getting around the island.  Many locals were happy, because while we were there, they opened up the back road so you could pass through Kapaa if you wanted to avoid traffic.  Our hotel here was even nicer than the first one, with a great view of the ocean.  Kapaa was a great location, because we could either go north or south in a short amount of time.   While in Kauai, we also did many hiking trails, we kayaked through the river to a secret waterfall, jumped off a rope swing at Kipu Falls, did sunrise yoga on the beach, played putt putt golf, saw the Kiluea Lighthouse,  went to a rodeo, rode bikes along the coast, went to a real Hawaiian Luau, went out to some great restaurants, and also cooked up some delicious meals on our own.  I checked off many bucket list items on this trip, and they will be featured in upcoming posts of “The Great Freakin’ Adventures of Gina.”

This was seriously a dream vacation in paradise, and it was the perfect place to visit with my brand new husband!


Shave Ice

Top of Waimea Canyon looking over the Napali Coast

Brazilian Cardinal

Luau Kalamaku

Inside the caves on the Napali Coast

Scared to death hiking the Nualolo Trail

Cruisin' the East Coast of Kauai

The 'Stang

Poipu Beach

Kilauea Lighthouse

In between zip cords

Swimming Hole at Secret Falls


Ke'e Beach...my fav!




CJM Stables Horse Ride


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***SIDE NOTE: While in Hawaii, I documented our adventures day by day.  This is a shortened version of our trip because the original is super long, but if you are interested in reading about the whole experience, you can do so below:


#16 Go To Hawaii–Extended Version!!!


Saturday May 21, 2011

Day 1

After being too excited to sleep the night before (I stayed up watching TV shows, straightening up the apartment, and fantasizing about Hawaii), I was pretty tired by the time it came around to go to the airport.  As a wedding gift, my boss paid for Zack and I to have a car service to the airport which was amazing, because we didn’t need to worry about hailing a cab with all our luggage.  Plus, Rafael (our driver) got a spiffy new Mercedes Benz S550  4 Matic, so it was a nice ride.  We got to the airport early, grabbed a quick bite to eat, and sat down to nap before boarding our flight.  We first had a 6 hour flight to LAX which seemed to take an eternity (I think because we were just so excited to get there.)  During the flight we realized that we forgot the book on Kauai that Zack’s mom had given us, which was a bummer since Zack had read it front to back circling everything he thought might be fun to do.  Thank God for the internet right?  At least we had a backup plan.  After landing in LA, we grabbed lunch and navigated our way through the construction at LAX until finally finding our gate which was in the most obscure part of the airport.  Even the airline employees didn’t know how to function in this tiny area they stuck us in.  Luckily, we made it on the flight with no problem, and had a comfortable ride to Lihue Airport in Kauai.  I slept a lot to catch up on what I had missed the night before.  We sat next to a nice gentleman who gave us tons of secret local tips.  His brother had just moved there to retire, and so he was telling us about great farmer’s markets, secret meadows, and great beaches.  We FINALLY touched down in Kauai at 4:40pm (which was 10:40pm on our EST body clock), and we were starved for dinner.  We picked up our rental car that we were planning to use for the two weeks, and decided on a red Mustang convertible instead of the compact car we had originally booked.  It was only $80 more for the entire two weeks, and come on…It’s our HONEYMOON after all!  The first thing I noticed at the airport was a rooster, hen, and a family of baby chicks.  We knew there were going to be wild chickens on the island, but we didn’t know there would be so many, and we didn’t know the story behind it.  Apparently there was a hurricane in 1992 that swept through Kauai once, and then came right back through for a second round.  It hit a bunch of chicken coops, and all the chickens were freed, hence now there are wild chickens all over the island of Kauai.  Pretty crazy.  After picking up our ‘Stang, we drove off into the sunset screaming with happiness while we tried to find a place to eat.  The place recommended to us by the car rental place was closed, so we decided to just ride until we found something.  We came across this place called Hanamaulu Restaurant Tea House and Sushi Bar.  It looked packed and smelled delicious from the road, so we figured we would check it out.  Upon arrival, we quickly realized that this was definitely a local joint which made us excited.  There were two parties going on, a gorgeous outdoor garden, and some people sitting at the sushi bar, so we decided to take a seat there.  After dining on tea, a pupu platter, multiple sushi rolls, and some green tea ice cream we decided this place was legit!  We met two local couples who were sitting next to us, and they were full of friendliness and advice for us.  It was a great way to start our trip in Hawaii.  After dinner, we were exhausted, and it was getting dark, so we drove to find our resort, and found a gorgeously landscaped place in Princeville.  By this point it was way past our NY city clock bedtime, so we crashed and figured we would wake up super early to enjoy our first full day in Hawaii!


Sunday May 22, 2011

Day 2

Aloha!  Being that our body clocks are still on EST time, Zack and I woke up with the roosters this morning around 5:30am, before the sun had even risen.  I think this might be a record for me.  We got ready for the day, and took a walk on the grounds of our resort.  We are located right on a golf course, and we have found that most of Princeville is covered in beautifully maintained golf courses.  I think this might be my father’s paradise.  We walked the golf course makai (to the water ) where the cliffs have a dramatic drop down to the water.  The view was stunning.  Looking back mauka (toward the mountains), was equally, if not more stunning.  The mountains are so massive and lush with greenery.  I have never seen mountains like this before, and we saw our first Hawaiian rainbow!  Not a double rainbow, but good enough for Day 2.  Along the walk, we also saw other interesting species native to Hawaii; the Brazilian cardinal and the bird of paradise were on the top of my favorites list.  We then made our way back to the hotel for a free breakfast where I was introduced to POG—pineapple, orange, guava juice.  I think this might be similar to this drink Ocean Spray used to make called Mauna Lai which my dad always used to buy.  Breakfast was good, and they had an information session there for everyone to learn about fun things to do on the island.  We kind of got suckered into signing up for this second 90 minute info session about time shares in order to get really good discounts on all activities for the rest of our two weeks here.  We’ll see how that goes tomorrow.  The rest of the day, we pretty much just explored the North Shore of the island.  We found the St. Regis resort which is beautiful, grocery stores, fruit stands, farmer’s market areas, shops, restaurants, etc.  The drive along the North Shore is really tight and has lots of twists and turns with one lane bridges.  There are also spectacular view points along the way, plenty of beaches, cool caves, and an area called tunnels, which is supposed to be good for snorkeling.  We checked out Hanalei Bay, which was pretty quiet, and then made a quick stop at Waikoko which was also very quiet.  Our favorite of the day was Haena Beach, where we were lucky to find parking.  The first thing we did there was go across the street to this enormous cave opening and took some photos.  It was a pretty cool sight.  Then we went to the food truck nearby and I just had to get some Hawaiian shaved ice (rainbow flavor just like all the kids—pineapple, vanilla, and cherry.)  Zack got a Kalua pig sandwich, which is basically a BBQ pulled pork sandwich that was also really delicious.  In the food cart line, Zack also noticed some green avocados growing on a tree, and of course had to try and climb up to get one.  We then walked down the beach admiring the lush mountains as we walked toward the coral reef (tunnels) so Zack could get in a little snorkeling.  The entire day, the weather was kind of wacky.  Rain, sun, rain, sun, rain sun pretty much the whole day.  Luckily, we got enough sun to make it worth being out there on the beach for most of the day.  We made our last stop at Ke’e Beach, and didn’t get out as it was packed, and we were ready to head home by this point anyway.  We did see some trail beginnings which made us excited for the rest of the week.  We will be back!  We stopped at the grocery store on the way home, and man I thought NYC had expensive food, but I think Hawaii takes the cake!  We came home, relaxed on our deck for a bit, took a bubble bath in our Jacuzzi, and the cooked up a yummy Italiano meal of linguine with clams, squid, & spinach with white wine.  Perfection.  In bed by 9:30pm and ready for Day 3.


Monday May 23, 2011

Day 3

Rain rain, go away.  Come back to Hawaii some other day.  The forecast had looked pretty promising over the next week with Mon-Tues looking similar to our day yesterday and sunshine the rest of the week.  But the weather has decided to take a turn in Princeville, and it now looks like showers for the rest of the week.  Of course, it’s unpredictable and there are pockets of sunshine, but it wasn’t looking good for the beach or hiking on the North Shore.  Luckily, my genius husband discovered that the climate is different all over this wacky island.  He found that the South shore was supposed to be completely sunny the whole week.  Score!  Although, it was a bit of a drive, it was totally worth it to explore the other side of the island and get out of the rain.  Before we did this, we had to sit through a 90 minute sales pitch on time shares, which was kind of a drag, but worth the discounts on all the activities around the island.  After this, we decided to drive to Waimea Canyon which strangely, is super close to Princeville, there is just no way to get to it without driving ALL the way around the island to the other side.  One of the best things about Kauai is how natural it is and how well they preserve nature here.  So as annoying as it is to have to drive around the long way, you have to appreciate what they have done to keep the island looking so clean, beautiful, and natural.  We took the drive down to Waimea with the convertible top down and sunshine was blazing!  Yes!  After the long drive, we got a little hungry, so we stopped for lunch at a recommended spot called Shrimp Station.  I got the coconut shrimp which was amazing!  Zack, who is allergic to shrimp, went across the street to Island Taco instead and got ahi tuna tacos.  After satisfying our appetites, we decided to make the drive up the mountain to view the canyon.  Along the way, there were tons of pull-over stop off spots to take in the views.  It was hard to be the driver on this portion, because you want to see everything, but obviously you have to keep your eyes on the road!  So it was nice they had these pull over spots.  I can’t even explain how breathtaking some of these views were of the canyon.  Just stunning.  We got even higher, and got a view of the Napali Coast, which honestly rivals the view I saw in Capri, Italy (which was previously my most favorite view in the world).  After taking in the views, we decided to go for a little hike.  We chose an easy trail for our first Hawaiian hike, called the Kaluapuhi Trail, it was only about 2.4 miles round trip, and pretty easy, but very scenic with lots of pretty trees, really gorgeous birds I wish I could name, and unbelievably, there was even a rooster on our hike!  After the hike, we headed back down the mountain; this time Zack drove, so I could see a little more.  At the bottom of the mountain we stopped to get some yummy Hawaiian flavored ice cream; pineapple coconut for me, and orange pineapple for Zack.  We then wanted to see what the south shore beaches were about so we stopped at Lucy Wright Beach near Waimea to catch what was left of the sun and wash off my muddy shoes from our hike.  We first noticed the color of the sand on this beach—black.  It was kind of cool, but also a little weird.  There weren’t too many people on this beach besides a few locals, and homeless tent village nearby.  I guess if I were homeless, I would want to live on the beach in Kauai too!  After the beach, we made the trek back to the North Shore, cooked up some BBQ chicken on the grill, tropical fruit salad, and black beans with a glass of wine, and we were spent.



Tuesday May 24, 2011

Day 4

ZIPCORD DAY!!!  Amongst coming to Hawaii, I’m finding there are plenty of ways to knock things off my bucket list out here.  One of which is zip cording!  We found a treetop tour down in Lawai on the south side of the island.  We were up bright and early to get there and meet a guy on an ATV who directed us into the forest to the start of the zip lining course.  This course had 7 lines ranging from long, medium, one mini zip, and a bunch of different rope bridges to cross as well.  We got all our gear on, and they took us up to our first zip.  The group in front of us had a woman who had just let out a ridiculous scream, so that was upping my nerves a little bit!  We climbed to the top of this rope bridge to start the course, and wow, was it high!  The first zip was a little freaky, but definitely fun, and I think I got the hang of zipping pretty quickly!  We continued along the tour taking photos, across bridges, and swinging on swings above the treetops.  We were pretty high up there, and luckily, Zack and I were able to get a couple cool videos of us on the zip line.  Our guides were all really nice and gave us great tips for the rest of our trip in Kauai.  After the zip course, I kind of felt like a pro, but we weren’t done yet.  The monster swing was next, which takes an individual up about 60 feet into the air until you let go and “Swing Away!”  I let out a blood curdling scream on the way down, but it was such an awesome rush and tons of fun.  Even Zack kinda screamed out on his way down as well!  Lastly, we both climbed the 50 foot rock wall all the way to the top.  Zack knocked it out quickly, but it was a little more difficult for me being of such short stature with short arms and short legs.  It was definitely a tough challenge for me, and I did need a little break at one point when I was almost to the top, but the comment from one of the guides about 5th graders completing the course last week kicked my butt into gear, and I knocked out the rest up to the top.  Afterwards, my arms felt like jello, and I’m pretty sure my arms will be sore tomorrow as well.  After our adventuresome morning, we were starving, so we decided to check out Poipu, which was nearby, and had a cool tree tunnel entrance into that part of town.  We got a delicious bite to eat at Brennecke’s on the Beach.  Their ceviche was a pass, but their Kalua Pig Sandwiches were to die for.  Melt in your mouth amazing.  I also enjoyed a yummy Pina Colada to wash it down.  The view from Brennecke’s was gorgeous and definitely what I had been looking for since coming to Hawaii.  I pointed out a little tide pool area to Zack while we were eating, and he all of the sudden had a flash down memory lane that this was the place his parents brought him to when he was 5.  We had found it!  Poipu Beach was pretty cool.  There were mostly resorts nearby, but we got some snorkeling gear, and went out to Sand Island to check out fish.  Along the way, we saw two Hono, or green sea turtles near the shore which was pretty awesome.  I hope they are able to get back out to the big ocean when they need to.  Snorkeling was a lot of fun, and we saw some really cool tropical fish including Humuhumunukunukuapua’a (Picasso Triggerfish), Kihikihi (Moorish Idol), Kikapapu (Raccoon Butterflyfish), and more.  We laid out on Sand Island for awhile, walked around the town of Poipu, and of course, got some Hawaiian Shave Ice.  After a long day, we came back to Princeville, showered up, and went to dinner at the nearby St. Regis.  After battling me on what to wear, Zack finally got in his dress clothes, and we headed down the street to the resort.  The St. Regis was beautiful, and reminded us of something we would find in Vegas, except on the water and no casino.  We went to dinner at the Kauai Grill, which we happily realized was owned by Chef Jean George.  Holy delicious.  We started with a Ginger Margarita and a Peach Saketini, both amazing and the Japanese raw Hamachi with macademia nut and green chilies.  Nom nom nom.  For our entrees, I got the Kona Lobster, and Zack got the Lehi which is a snapper with sesame shiso sauce.  Everything was divine, and we had a really nice romantic evening together while living large for the night!  Today was an A+ all around.


Wednesday May 25, 2011

Day 5

Today we started off the morning with Zack making a yummy breakfast of eggs, turkey bacon, and toast.  We then set off for the final destination of the North Shore—Ke’e Beach.  We had heard good things from a woman who worked at the surf shop, and the weather was looking good in the neighborhood, so we decided to try our luck.  After stopping at the surf shop to pick up an extra set of snorkeling gear, we headed to Ke’e.  By the time we got there, people had already filled the parking lot, and we ended up having to park super far away.  It gets really crowded here, because aside from the beach, it also marks the start of the Kalalau Trail where hikers flock to navigate this Napali Coast trail.  Ke’e Beach was awesome; we got tons of sun, and the snorkeling was great with many tropical fish, and cool looking coral and sea urchin to look at.  After a few hours of swimming and sunning, we decided to take on the 4 mile hike down the Kalalau Trail.  The trail actually goes a total of 11 miles down the entire Napali Coast with beautiful stunning views along the way.  You must be a really experienced hiker to take this on, as it could take days to make it there and back with 22 miles of trail, and it’s definitely not easy.  There is a shorter hike to a beautiful waterfall that probably would have taken us 7-8 hours had we attempted it.  But being that this was really our first difficult hike in Hawaii, and we had no water, we decided just to do the 3-4 hour hike to the beach and back.  The hike was a bit tough, but totally worth it.  The views were absolutely gorgeous and breathtaking, and I’m so happy we decided to do this trail, even though we were hot and tired.  Making it down to the beach was awesome, and we built a little rock tower next to all the rest to prove we made it.  The hike back was pretty difficult, but honestly I think with water and having not laid out in the sun all day, it wouldn’t have been so tough.  After the hike, we were completely exhausted, and we deserved rewards for our efforts.  My reward came in the form of water and Hawaiian Shave Ice.  Zack’s reward was water and Ahi Poke from Dolphin Market.  We then headed home to shower up for dinner.  On recommendation, we went to Tahiti Nui for dinner, which is a small local watering hole with really great food and live music every night.  We ordered their famous Mai Tai’s and a green salad with papaya seed dressing to start.  Then, I got jumbo sea scallops while Zack ordered Hawaiian pizza with Kalua pork and pineapple.  Everything was really good, and the Hawaiian guitar player was really entertaining.  He sang tunes like “Puff the Magic Dragon,” and “Somewhere Over the Rainbow.”  We had a great time, but it we couldn’t stick it out for the rock and roll jam sesh afterwards, because we were tired, and knew that we had an early morning coming!



Thursday May 26, 2011

Day 6

Today, we woke up before the sunrise and headed to Hanalei Bay for the Napali Coast boat tour.  It started out rainy and cold, which was a bit of a bummer, but luckily, the weather cleared up while we were out on the water.  We boarded our raft in the Hanalei River with 6 other people including a middle-aged couple with their 11 year old daughter, and elderly couple, and our crazy Captain.  The tour was unbelievable, and I would recommend it to anyone.  On the way out, we passed Ke’e Beach where we had hung out yesterday, and then we kept going all along the coast.  We saw some hikers along the Kalalau Trail along with a few goats in the cliffs.  We even witnessed a helicopter air drop of supplies to one of the beaches on the coast.  The cliffs looked absolutely amazing from the water, and because we were in the smaller raft, we were able to go inside multiple caves which was really cool.  We saw some waterfalls, some rainbows, and some sea turtles from the boat, and it was definitely a great experience.  At the end of our route, we stopped and anchored the boat for some snorkeling.  Apparently, my fins didn’t get packed, and I was having mask problems, but luckily the elderly woman on the boat with us (who couldn’t swim) decided after 2 minutes she was done snorkeling, and let me borrow her gear.  I still was having issues with the new gear, but I was able to see some really cool tropical fish including an entire school by a coral reef.  After swimming around for a bit, I then had a moment of panic about being in the deep water, and decided to swim back to the boat as fast as possible.  We had a yummy lunch provided by the boat tour company, and heard tons of crazy stories from our Captain about life on Kauai.  The ride back was faster since we had already taken photos, and the wind had picked up so there were a bunch of really big waves to ride over causing screams and squeals of delight from myself and the 11 year old.  After the boat ride, Zack and I were both exhausted.  I think all the adventure and excitement from the week was starting to catch up with us, and we decided to just go back to the hotel and lay by the pool.  We both took long naps until we finally felt refreshed.  Once we awoke, we decided to check out Queen Emma’s Bath, which is the hottest attraction in Princeville.  Basically, it’s an entirely enclosed pool of water right on the ocean surrounded by a bunch of lava rocks, and you can go swimming or snorkeling here.  We realized it was within walking distance to our hotel, so we took the walk down there to check it out.  We heard stories that this area is dangerous, and people have died by waves crashing onto them on the rocks and dragging them out to sea.  We researched the tides to make sure that we were going during low tide, and after talking to a few more people, we found that in the summertime, there is not much to worry about.  (as long as you are being smart of course, and not straying too close to the edge of the rocks.)  That being said, stay away from this area in the wintertime as it becomes much more rough and dangerous.  After our little adventure, we were hungry, so we went on a quick shopping trip, and came back to our place to cook up grilled Opah, or moonfish, (which tastes a bit like swordfish), pasta with red sauce, and baby bok choy.  Another good day in Kauai.



Friday May 27, 2011

Day 7

Call me girlie if you must, but my nails have hit the two week mark, and they are in desperate need of being redone!  I tried the Shellac technique two weeks ago for my wedding day, and now I’m hooked!  Thanks, Shirin!  The stuff is amazing, the polish goes over your nails like regular polish, yet stays on as good as fake tips without chipping, you can touch anything you want immediately after your manicure is done, and the best part is that your nails are not ruined once the stuff comes off!  Amazing.  I found a salon in Kapaa off Yelp and went to check it out for a mani/pedi combo.  It was pretty expensive, but I loved being pampered, and didn’t feel bad about it, because I am on my honeymoon, right?  The weird part was that Zack of course stayed home at this time, and after spending 24/7 time together, I really missed the kid for those 3 hours!  When I got back, we took a long walk around the golf course on our resort before the nighttime festivities.


Tonight was pretty exciting, as we made our way down to the south side of the island for Luau Kalamaku!  Zack had never been to a luau, and I had never been to one outside of Disney World, so we figured we should get the full Hawaiian experience.  We heard good things about this particular luau, so we decided to give it a shot.  Our hotel has a shuttle service that picked people up so we didn’t have to drive all the way there, and the driver gave us a little tour as we took the drive down there.  It was a little bit helpful for some things we couldn’t point out, but also a little bit repetitive since we had already done so much exploring on our own.  We entered the luau to hear drums playing, we got leid, and had our photos taken, and were seated in an enormous tented pavilion with a big stage in the middle of the room.  There was an open bar with yummy mai tais and blue Hawaiians and lots of vendors set up with jewelry, bags, hats, flavored almonds, Hawaiian games to play, and more.  Right before dinner, they bring everyone over to bless the pig that has been roasting and they carry it away on a stretcher type carrier.  Once we were seated for dinner, there was an appetizer and salad course followed by a buffet dinner with the Kalua pig, purple sweet potatoes (which were to die for), poi (which I would rather die than eat), vegetable curry, chicken with noodles, sweet and sour chicken and rice.  Everything was pretty decent, and for dessert we had rice pudding with rum sauce and banana cream pie which was really good.  The show started after we ate with tons of Hawaiian dancing, a sort of play intermixed and fire twirling which was definitely the best part!  Our table was full of young people, mostly couples, one couple had just met face to face after 5 months of chatting online!  Too funny.  The girl was native to Kauai, and I was happy to report that she said all of the food at the luau was stuff that they would make at home, so it was pretty authentic.  We had a great time, and I’m definitely glad we decided to take advantage of going to a luau while in Hawaii.



Saturday May 28, 2011

Day 8

Our first week in Kauai is now over, but we have a day stuck in limbo as our 2nd timeshare doesn’t start until tomorrow.  Luckily, Ka’eo Kai let us stay in a studio room that they had open for the night for only $77!  Definitely a steal!  We did laundry and packed up our things to move to the studio for the day/night.  I am going to miss our home we had for a week.  Then, the rainy weather brought us down to Poipu Beach again.  We were nervous that it wouldn’t even clear up down south, but the sun pulled through in Poipu, and we laid out all day long in the sunshine.  We watched some boogie boarders catching great waves, and then Zack did some snorkeling while I feel asleep in the sand.  We had a nice relaxing day until we got hungry, and decided to head home.  On the way back, we stopped in Kapaa at a little shack called Mermaids, which we had heard some good things about.  I ordered the chicken noodle stir fry, and Zack got the Ahi Tacos.  Both were really good.  We took a little walk around town, which is probably the biggest town on the island (and causes traffic daily on the only highway).  We saw some really awesome local art at a gallery, cute knickknacks, and some nice clothes and jewelry at different shops.  We also stumbled upon a natural foods store, which I am sure we will check out next week at our new place since it’s in Kapaa.  After walking around for a bit, we headed back to the studio, and being Saturday night, we decided to hit the town.  We weren’t really sure where to go, but decided our best bet was probably Tahiti Nui again, and we were right!  It was packed with locals dancing to a reggae DJ all night long.  We had some good drinks and met some nice people while also finally getting our dance on for once in Kauai.  Last call was around 12:00am which is super early for us New Yorkers, but we have adjusted to the Kauai lifestyle quickly!  I think it might be hard to take us away from this place!


Sunday May 29, 2011

Day 9

We woke up and packed up once again to finally leave Ka’eo Kai for good.  We headed down to Hanalei for breakfast at the Wake Up Café where I enjoyed eggs, bacon, and hash browns with an OJ, and Zack had papaya, granola, and hash browns with coffee.  It was really good, and I also liked that the restaurant was decked out with old surfing photos from the pros that had come to enjoy this café.  After breakfast, we headed to the Waipa Rodeo, which we had heard about through one of the Kauai locals last night at Tahiti Nui.  Neither of us had ever been to a rodeo before, so we weren’t really sure what to expect, but it was a pretty fun time.  It was a small town rodeo, so there was no bull riding or anything like that, but there was calf roping and mugging, which was a lot of fun to watch, and just see the cowboy culture of the Hawaiians.  After a couple hours at the rodeo, we decided to check out Tunnels which is a great snorkeling spot, and Zack was pumped.  After getting way too much sun this past week, we opted for a shaded spot to read our books.  We met a super Happy Hippie who was feeding a flock of pigeons by our towels when we got back from a walk on the beach.  She was from British Columbia in Canada, and her husband and she were really nice, but she was definitely an interesting lady!  Very deep thinker.  We lazied it out on the beach for pretty much the rest of the day until we got hungry and decided to grab a bite to eat in Hanalei.  We stopped at Neida for some Mexican/Brazilian food.  I ordered a strawberry margarita with pork crazy nachos and Zack ordered a big steak with onions, rice, and beans washed down with a Dos Equis lager.  The food was pretty good, and we then walked around the town for a bit exploring the little shops nearby since we had neglected to do it earlier, and we were sad to be leaving Hanalei.  We both decided tonight that Hanalei is probably our favorite town on the island.  After the sun went down, we finally made it to our new resort destination, Kauai Coast Resort in Kapaa.  Upon arrival, we realized that this is a much nicer place to stay although there are plusses and minuses to both of the resorts.  We took a quick walk in the dark around the resort grounds and noticed a very nice pool with tiki bar, hot tub, tons of lounge chairs, hammocks, and the Pacific Ocean just steps away.  They also have a good looking restaurant on site with live music in the lobby every night.  We unpacked all of our things at our new home for week #2, and we are getting excited about what we have in store for our next adventures in Kauai!  Goodnight!



Monday May 30, 2011

Day 10

Today was an adventuresome day of exploration.  We made our way to the Kuilau trail for a hike, but on the way stopped to view the Opaekaa Falls from the road, and crossed the street to discover an old Hawaiian village called the Kamokila Village.  We quickly decided we must check this out on the way back.  We continued down the road past Wailua toward the start of the Kuilau trail with the help of our book, Kauai Trailblazer, which has proven to be an awesome guidebook for trails, beaches, and fun adventures and ways to find little secrets on the island.  The Kuilau trail, although a bit muddy, had some beautiful views of the Sleeping Giant mountain and the valleys below.  We got some good exercise in doing about a 6-7 mile round trip hike for the day.  As noted before, we did indeed stop at the Kamokila village after our hike.  It turned out to be worth the $5 per person to stop and learn a little history about early Hawaiian culture.  Most of the town had been rebuilt, but it was on the original grounds right on the Wailua River, and there were multiple descriptions of what the different huts were used for, many fruit trees, and some cool animals including two boar and three beautiful peacocks.  After exploring, we got hungry, and decided to stop at Foodland to pick up dinner, since our new fridge in Kapaa was empty.  We picked up tons of goodies, and then got home only to realize we were too tired to cook, so Zack ate his leftover steak, and I had a yummy bag of popcorn for dinner before passing out.


Tuesday May 31, 2011

Day 11

Rise and shine early again today, this time for an outdoorsy adventure to the “Secret Falls.”  We decided to book with Kayak Adventures (which we found out later also runs under Ancient River Kayak and Rainbow Kayak names) since they were literally a 2 minute walk from our resort.  We grabbed breakfast at home before heading over, and geared up for our trip.  The kayaks have dry bags so we were able to bring along towels and a camera, etc.  We started out with a 2 mile paddle out on the Wailua River, which was really nice.  It was early, quiet, and relaxing, even though I realized I would definitely be getting an arm workout today!  We turned a corner off the river where it got skinnier until we were able to bank our kayaks and start our 1 mile hike to the falls.  The hike was gorgeous all along the river with lots of jungle like vegetation, some rocks, some mud, and lots and lots of greenery.  Our guide pointed out all kinds of interesting things such as mango trees, candle nut trees, guava trees, etc.  Our hike landed us at the bottom of a gorgeous waterfall at least 100ft high with a swimming hole underneath of it that you could stand in.  We immediately took off our hiking gear to get down to our bathing suits and plunged into the swimming hole.  Our guide, Thomas, was nice enough to take some photos of us in the water in front of the waterfall which was pretty good.  He then took out his machete to slice up a big pineapple for us to serve with our lunch of sandwiches, fruit, chips, etc.  Our trip was complete with another 1 mile hike back through the jungle and then the 2 mile paddle in our kayaks back to the harbor.  I was surprised at how clear all the river water was, and one of the best things about Kauai is that there is not much to be afraid of in terms of animals in the woods.  There are no snakes on the entire island, and if anyone sees one, they fly in a helicopter to get rid of it.  There aren’t poisonous frogs or other things to worry about and, there are no piranhas or alligators in the rivers, etc.  Of course, I suppose sharks are a concern, but honestly there are only about 3-4 shark attacks on the entire state of Hawaii each year (which isn’t any more than most beaches), and it’s been proven that you are 15 times more likely to be killed by getting hit on the head by a falling coconut.  So, I’m thinking my chances are pretty good?!  We were very happy after our river/jungle/waterfall adventure, and being beat from the trip, we decided to go back to the hotel pool and get some sun and read our books while enjoying a frozen cup of deliciousness from the tiki bar.  After a couple hours of sunning and swimming, a big downpour rolled through (typical), and we darted for shelter.  Luckily, it was a quick rain passing through, and we were able to come back down shortly to grill up some yummy dinner that should have been cooked the night before.  We grilled pork chops, shrimp, yellow peppers, and corn with Hawaiian seasoning, and made a garden salad to accompany our feast.  We completed the feast with a bottle of red wine.  I love vacation.



Wednesday June 1, 2011

Day 12


We started out our day this morning with a drive down to Poipu for a scenic beach and mountain horseback ride at CJM Stables.  Remember our friend from Tahiti Nui and the Rodeo?  Well, he also mentioned that if we wanted to do a horse ride, we should do it here, so we took his advice, and I’m sure glad we did!  I’ve only been on a horse twice in my life—once was on my 7th birthday when my parents threw my sister and I a carnival birthday party (still my favorite birthday party to date).  She hired the neighbor who had a stable to come up with one of her horses for “pony rides” for all the kids.  We walked around the front yard a couple times with someone holding the reins from the front leading the horse around and we called it a day.  The second time, I think I was about 10, and once again, I didn’t have full control of my horse, as we were at my Dad’s friends stable and she led the horse around the ring a couple times with me on it.  I was very excited as 1) this would be my first time on a horse by myself where I would have to control it (btw, this also made me a little nervous!), 2) a romantic horseback ride would be another check off my bucket list, and 3) the horse ride is on both the beach and the mountain side.  I really don’t think it can get any better than that!  My horse’s name was Hoppa, and while she listened to my commands pretty well, she was definitely a little lazy one!  I think it was definitely a good starting out horse considering I am a beginner though.  Zack’s horse was a little more spunky, with the name, Dude, and he was just eating grass the whole time on the trail.  The ride was beautiful.  It was so amazing to be riding a horse right on the beach, and then up through the mountains.  I picked it up surprisingly quickly, and had a really great time.  Our guide, Chaz, was really cool, and we found out he and his partner actually won the roping competition at the Waipa Rodeo earlier this week!  He took a couple pictures for us on the ride and we had some POG on the trail as well.  At the end of the ride I was partly sad that it was over and I had to say goodbye to my horse, but my legs and bum were very happy that we were finished!  After the ride, we headed over to the nearby Grand Hyatt for a bite to eat.  We sat on the outdoor terrace overlooking a koi pond and the ocean to enjoy some Kalua Banana Coladas, ceasar salad, and Mahi Mahi sandwiches.  Our waitress was super nice, and asked us all our advice for visiting the northeast area of the states.  After lunch, we took a walk around the grounds of the hotel which was really nice.  The pool area was huge with a couple restaurants, and multiple pools—one with sand!  We decided to “Bonnie & Clyde” and plopped down on two comfy lounge chairs to sun ourselves and enjoy the pool.  No one really seemed to mind or notice, so we spent a few hours there until we were all sunned out.  On the way home, we stopped at Kipu Falls, which has a very hidden entrance from the road, but luckily there were a bunch of cars parked nearby, so we figured out where the path began.  It was about a 5-10 minute walk back through some thick plant vegetation, but totally worth it!  We reached Kipu Falls, which has about a 20 foot drop, and many people jumped from it with no problem.  Zack jumped it twice (the second time, I promised him I would try really hard to come in after him, but ended up chickening out…boo, I know).  I did, however, do the rope swing over the water, which also had about a 20 foot drop, but somehow this just seemed a bit safer to me.  Zack, being the monkey that he is, had to climb up the side of the cliff to unhook the rope catcher which had gotten stuck, in order for us to eventually swing out on the rope.  It was worth it, and I’m glad we checked it out!  Feeling like exploring a little bit more, we went down a couple of other roads to discover a huge fish pond and a new area outside Lihue called Nawiliwili Harbor.  Many boats were docked here, a canoe club and a yacht club as well as a lot of industry, but we kept driving down the road and found a lot of interesting shops and restaurants on the river which was pretty cool.  We eventually made it back to our home for the week in Kapaa, ate our leftovers, and booked our adventures for the rest of the week.  We are both getting sad that our trip is nearing the end.



Thursday June 2, 2011

Day 13

 Today, we planned on hiking in the Waimea Canyon.  We did not, however, realize that we were getting ourselves into quite the scary, life flashing-before-your-eyes situation.  We woke up a little later than usual, and had a filling breakfast of bagels, cheese, and fruit.  Then we made our way down south toward Waimea with the convertible top down on the gorgeous, sunny day.  After driving 15 miles up the mountain, we stopped at the museum to check out the trail map and decide which one we would like to hike that day.  The last trail we did in Waimea was the first one we did in Hawaii, and it was really easy and short.  We definitely wanted something more challenging, but we weren’t really sure which one to do.  We knew we did not want the swamp trail, because that one goes straight up and straight down, and we heard your toenails might fall off by the end because of the steep decline.  The museum area was packed with lots of tourists (unlike last time when we were able to ask advice from the person working there), so we were kind of on our own with picking out a trail.  We looked at the map, and decided on the Awaawapuhi Trail which neared the edge of the Napali Coast and also connected to the Nualolo Cliff Trail and the Nualolo Trail.  The entire loop was 8.5 miles, but we weren’t sure if we were going to have enough time at first, so we thought we would just go down the Awaawapuhi Trail and then come back the same way for about a 6.5 mile hike.  Once we got to the end of the Awaawapuhi Trail, though, we decided to go for it, and try the whole loop.  Clearly, we should have done our homework to realize what we were getting ourselves into.  The entire hike was really, really gorgeous.  There were beautiful views of canyons, mountains, and the ocean.  It was similar to what we had seen that first time in Waimea when we drove to the top, although this time, we were now hiking in that mountain.  There were parts of the trail that were eroded, so we both got hiking sticks and were really careful to stay as far away from the edge as possible.  Although parts were a bit slippery, we never really felt too much in danger.  That is of course until we came to a sign that read: “Caution: the next .25 miles of this trail is extremely narrow and washed out.  Please continue only at your own risk.”  Umm…WHAT?!?!  You’re telling me we’ve come all this way, and now we are going to have to turn around and go all the way back the way we came?  Who knows if we will make it back by dark if we do that?  But this part of the trail looks extremely dangerous, and seriously scary.  To the left,  was a wall of loose eroding rock and dirt.  The trail was reduced to 1-2 feet at most of flat dry crumbly dirt that angled down 50 degrees about 4-6 feet at most and then cut off to a vertical death drop.  I asked Zack what he thought we should do, and we both contemplated turning around.  I don’t know what the hell we were thinking, but we decided to go for it.  Zack went ahead first to make sure it was safe, and he made it down the first section with no problem.  I was terrified, but I followed suit keeping one hand on the eroding rocks to the left and my head turned toward the mountain.  We both rounded the corner, and HOLY SHIT the drop was insane.  We read later that this drop is about 2000ft of a free fall.  I quickly turned my head back toward the mountain as there was no turning back now, and kept moving along the ridge crossing the next section.  We came up to the next section where we had to go a bit downhill facing outward from the mountain, and this was definitely the scariest part.  All it would take would be one slip, and you could go sliding and flying right off this mountain.  At this point, Zack instructed me to put down my hiking stick and sit down on my butt, dig my palms back into the mountain, and inch my way down.  There was a big root that was fairly steady, at the bottom of this section that we used to guide us just in case we were to slip.  We moved slowly inch by inch until we were finally past this ridiculous section of the trail.  After we made it through that part, I stole a look to my right to see what we had actually just done, and Zack said, “Don’t look! Don’t look!”  But I couldn’t resist viewing what we had just conquered.  It was extremely scary, yet beautiful.  Turning back toward the mountain, there was one more freaky section left in which I just kept my head facing the mountain and we both made our way.  Breathing two HUGE sighs of relief when we finally got through that .25 mile part of the trail we hugged each other and could not believe what we just did.  I repeated over and over that my parents were going to kill me when they found out what we had done.  Covered in red dirt, we washed our hands, and continued along the rest of the trail.  This section of the trail was a lot of uphill and also a little scary, but after completing what we just did, we were pretty sure we would have no trouble conquering the rest of the trail.  8.5 miles later, we were completely and utterly exhausted and dumbfounded about the hike we had just done.  We were also pretty hungry, so we drove down the mountain and had dinner at the Waimea Brewing Station.  Once again, we deserved rewards!!!  I got the beer sampler with 4 different drafts to try and Zack enjoyed a brew as well.  Zack ordered Thai veggie spring rolls and a big ‘ole bacon cheeseburger, and I ordered a cup of seafood chowder with a rack of baby back ribs.  Both entrees came with sweet potato fries.  The food was really good, well priced, and located on a beautiful plantation with nice cottages and an ocean view.  We packed up our leftovers, and headed back to Kapaa full, exhausted, and happy to be alive.


Friday June 3, 2011

Day 14

Still happy to be alive, we awoke this morning and praised the sun during sunrise yoga on the beach.  We found an instructor online, and she met us out front of the Waipouli Resort on a public beach at 5:50am.  We were able to see the sunrise as we laid our mats and towels on the sand for some mind and body strengthening.  It was a great way to start our relaxing day, and we both felt completely calmed afterward.  We then headed to Java Kai for breakfast in which Zack ordered bagels with lox and I got a Belgian waffle with bananas and macadamia nuts on top.  Yum!  After breakfast, we checked out some of the shops in Kapaa, and toured a Kauai hostel just to see what it looked like.  Continuing the relaxation, we went to the spa located right on our resort, and got a 90 minute couples massage.  Heaven.  It was completely what we needed after all the hiking and horseback riding.  My legs and buttocks were killing me, so this was the perfect fix.  It was also perfect timing, because as soon as our massages were over, we came out of our euphoric states to find that it had poured down rain and thunderstormed throughout the entire massage!  We had zoned out through the whole thing.  Although the rain had stopped at this point, it was still a bit dreary out, and rather than spend the rest of the day at the beach as planned, we decided to rent bikes and ride along the east coast on the bike trail down Kapaa.  It was a beautiful ride, minus all the little bugs flying into our faces, and we were glad we got the chance to view the coast from this angle.  We popped into a couple more shops in Kapaa; Zack bought a cool one-of-a-kind hand-drawn hat with a rooster on it, and we also found out Zack’s Hawaiian name is Kaka, which I had a field day with.  We started getting hungry, so we headed back to our place to shower up for dinner.  Two locals we had talked to about places to eat in Kapaa both suggested Kintaro, so we decided we must try it, and I am happy to say it was a good decision!  Probably the best deal on the island in terms of food!  First they hooked us up with free crispy wontons by accident.  We ordered pork gyoza , a spicy scallop roll, and a carafe of saki to start.  We then ordered a seafood bouillabaisse which had shrimp, crab, fish, clams, etc in a light seafood broth with rice noodles.  They brought us two miso soups with our meal instead of one.  Everything was really awesome, and our bill was about $55 for the entire thing! (not including tip).  This is unreal compared to every other place we have been in Kauai.  Wow.  I would definitely go back there again! 


Saturday June 4, 2011

Day 15

Today was a day of trying to find the sun.  We eventually succeeded, but it took awhile!  We started off going to breakfast in Kapaa at Kountry Kitchen, which we had heard a lot of great things about.  WOW, this place had portions bigger than I have ever seen!  Both of us got a yummy sampler with eggs, bacon, and French toast with a side of corn bread and hash browns.  I also tried coconut syrup for the first time, and it was amazing!  Kountry Kitchen definitely lived up to the hype.  We then decided to head to the North Shore one last time to Ke’e Beach.  It had been raining earlier, but it had stopped by the time we got there.  I laid out for a bit, and Zack did his last bit of snorkeling, but then the rain came around again, and we decided to head south.  Unfortunately, driving south did not bring much better weather.  It was actually getting worse!  Torrential downpours flooded the South Shore while we were driving down, and it was getting tough to even see the road.  Poipu was a no go, so we continued on, and it was even raining in Waimea.  We stopped at Island Taco for some quesadillas, and luckily, the by time we finished lunch, the sun had come out in Waimea.  The beaches in Waimea have black, kinda gross sand (and we heard the water contains baby hammerheads—yikes!) so we ended up laying out on the grassy area next to the beach instead.  We caught up on some reading, and then enjoyed a shave ice from Jo Jo’s right as it was closing time.  Today was probably the least best day in Kauai, and I say least best, because if on your worst day of vacation you still had an amazing breakfast, time to lay out in the sun, and get a shave ice, then you must be having an awesome time.  We ended our night at the Hukilau Restaurant in our hotel resort for our last dinner.  We were extremely and overly impressed with the quality of the food and the service we received here.  We ordered a bottle of Petite Syrah at the bar while we waited for our table, and then sat down on the outdoor lanai, or terrace/deck.  Zack enjoyed Ahi Poke Nachos as an appetizer, and the homemade vegetable lasagna as his entrée, while I ordered the filet mignon.  We were really happy with everything, although sad this would be our last dinner on the island.  We’ve had such an amazing time.


Sunday June 5, 2011-Monday June 6, 2011

Day 16 & 17

We were sad pandas today as it was time to pack up and leave.  Our flight didn’t actually leave until 8:40pm, so we really had the whole day, and it was GORGEOUS outside, yet we were both hesitant to go to the beach, because we didn’t want to sit on a plane for two days sweaty and sandy.  We opted to go putt-putt golfing on the North Shore, and I happily squeaked out a win by 1 stroke over my husband.  Holler!  Dad and new brother-in-law would be proud considering they just won their first tourney together.  After golfing, we drove up to the Kilauea Lighthouse, which we had put off doing earlier in the week.  It was a fantastic view, and then we did a little shopping in the town afterwards.  For lunch/dinner we went to the Hanalei Dolphin restaurant for some pupus, or appetizers, and we ordered fish tacos and ceviche.  We sauntered around the Hanalei shops and ended up buying some cute beachy clothes to take home with us.  That’s about all the time we had, and we then made our way to the Lihue Airport to fly home.  After two flights and a six hour time change, we are finally back in New York.  We grabbed food, and we are now back in our NYC apartment exhausted.  Tomorrow paradise is officially over, and it’s back to the real world of hustle and bustle.  This was a honeymoon to remember, and I couldn’t have asked for a better location and person to be with for the rest of my life.  We had such a blast spending so much quality time together, and I know we have a great long life ahead of us.  

#60 Meet My Pen Pal

May 14, 2011

At the age of 9 in the 4th grade at St. Mary of the Assumption School in Upper Marlboro, Maryland, I was introduced to a concept called “pen pals” by my teacher Sr. Myra.  Since then, I have carried on having pen pals for many years, but in 4th grade, I had my very first pen pal, Angela.  Sr. Myra had a teacher friend in Tucson, Arizona, and our entire class wrote letters to their class.  I couldn’t have gotten luckier with getting Angela as my pen pal.  She had the same name as my sister, she also had sisters, she was sweet, funny, easy to talk to, and I think if we grew up in the same area we would definitely have been in-person friends as well as paper writing friends.

Throughout the years, we constantly wrote each other letters updating each other on school, family, friends, vacations, and eventually boyfriends, living on our own, etc.  Most kids in our class stopped writing their pen pals after they got to the 5th or 6th grade, but Angela and I continued on for years.  Eventually a little thing called the internet was invented, and we started e-mailing more than writing, but we still kept in touch with holiday cards, pictures, e-mails, and more. 

It’s crazy to believe that we have been keeping in touch now for almost 18 years!  It’s always been a goal of ours to meet in person, but when we were younger, that was quite difficult being on opposite sides of the country.  We always said we would probably meet at one of our weddings one day, so when Zack proposed, I knew I just had to invite Angela to our wedding! 

It worked out to our advantage that Angela’s sister recently moved to DC, and she was able to stay with her on their trip to Maryland.  I have to say I am still shocked that Angela and her boyfriend, Leon, actually made it out!  I was so happy and excited that we were finally able to meet in person after 18 years.  She is just as sweet in person as on paper, and I’m so happy to have had that opportunity.  Many people who I tell this story think it’s amazing, and while I agree, to me I think “Why WOULDN’T we have kept in touch all these years?”  You know a good friend when you meet one, no matter how you meet them, and there would be no good reason to let that go!  My only regret is that we didn’t get to spend enough time together since we first met at the wedding, and we were running around like crazy people.  I hope she had a good time, and got to meet a lot of our friends and family that she has heard about in letters for years.

Next steps are to take a trip out to Tucson so we can spend more time and she can show us her stomping grounds!  

First time meeting each other!
Chatting it up
Mom & Angela
Zack, Me, Angela, & Leon

#56 Get Married

May 14, 2011

I’m sure many little girls imagine what it will be like to grow up and get married.  They dream of who their husbands will be, what their wedding will be like, who will be there.  Some have planned out everything about their wedding day—where it will be, what their dress will look like, their colors, bouquets, food, etc.  Some picture the man of their dreams—tall, dark, and handsome, or the blonde laid back surfer type.  Most little girls have thought about it at one point or another growing up.  Of course, this notion also crossed my mind.  However, I was not one of those little girls who knew exactly what I wanted when it came to getting married and finding a husband.

I had boyfriends growing up, broke some hearts, got my heart broken, had a little college fun, and then right when I was sick of it all—the drama, the heartache, the games—is when I met Zack.  Of course, it happened right when I WASN’T looking for a relationship.  I had gotten burned pretty badly and just wanted to have lighthearted fun, but something kept drawing me back to the short, Jewish, ex-Beta fraternity, working man that he was.  Maybe it was his persistence in hanging out with me.  Maybe it was his hilarious letters that he wrote me while he was away on business trips to Nevada, but I just could not get him out of my mind.  We ended up dating for 2 1/2 years before deciding to move from Maryland to the Big Apple in New York City together.  Basically, we were going to make it or break it in the big city.  I am happy to say that 3 years after moving in together we were just as smitten with each other, if not more so.  


He popped the question with my sister, her boyfriend, and my cousin in town in front of a restaurant of gawkers.  I was completely and utterly shocked, because I was getting ready to sing “Happy Birthday” to my cousin, Marisa, when the waiter plopped a shiny ring on the table and Zack was on one knee!  I could barely speak; I just kept looking to my sister for confirmation that this was actually happening.  Of course, I said yes, called every single one of my family members and friends, and continued celebrating all night NY style.

When first beginning to plan our wedding, I had NO idea where to begin.  There are a million things to do!  We ended up choosing to do our ceremony at the University of Maryland Chapel since we both went there, and it was a special place for us.  It was also a non-denominational chapel that allowed you to bring any religious ceremonies in, which was perfect for our Catholic-Jewish hybrid ceremony.  After searching high and low for reception venues, we ended up choosing the Greenbelt Marriott for their exquisite ballroom and outdoor cocktail hour patio.  We settled on classic black and white, modern yet vintage theme with bright pops of color from pink and orange flowers.  I designed the cake myself inspired by a combination of many photos online, doused myself in bridal magazines for the latest trends, and splurged on one of most unique wedding dresses I had ever seen from Cymbeline.


All the details and stress of planning aside, I could not wait to walk down that aisle and marry the love of my life and my best friend for the past 6 years.  We are so lucky to have a very large family and many friends that were there to celebrate our special day.  Not only did they throw us an awesome Hawaiian luau engagement party, my bridesmaids also threw an amazing bridal shower, and kick-ass bachelorette weekend in Wrightsville Beach, NC.  Zack’s equivalent was a near-death white water rafting experience in West Virginia, which only solidified their friendships when they pulled through to safety.


Our wedding day on May 14, 2011 was more than I could have imagined.  I was fairly calm for most of the day and excited rather than nervous.  The weather forecast didn’t look good, but the rain held off at just the perfect times for photos and cocktail hour.  The ceremony was beautiful, and our reception was truly rockin’!  The room looked stunning, it was an ultimate dance party, and my dad and I pulled off a Father-Daughter dance that could go down in history.  I am so lucky to have so many family and friends, and such a wonderful husband who cares so much about me.  I am truly blessed!

I am very much looking forward to spending many more years with Zack exploring the world, loving life, and creating a wonderful family together!


The photos below were taken by Joe Brier of The Happy Couple Photography in Northern Virginia, and we are thankful he was there to document our special day 🙂

***Blog update: Our wedding videography was done by Stephen Gradin of Dockside Video Productions, and the highlights can be seen here.  Enjoy!